I’ve taken a break from blogging lately but I’m hoping to get back to it! We went to Canada for a visit and had a great winter holiday. The kids enjoyed their first proper snow experience! Although Cheeky Girl did not enjoy the -28 temperatures!
We are enjoying the last bit of autumn before the winter begins. The girls enjoyed climbing trees and exploring places they found. They always enjoy the outdoors.
We are preparing for our winter trip to Canada as well. They will finally get to experience proper snow. They are very excited but as a result, lady P has resorted to tears a lot this week. Hopefully, things will calm down once we get to Canada.
Enjoy nature! It’s a time when kids can be kids and we don’t have to stress about anything. There is so little opportunity for them to have freedom nowadays because the world is unsafe! But we can find safe spaces in nature and let them run free!
What beautiful weather we had! On Sunday I got the pool out and the kids made a water slide. They were freezing but loved it! Lady P kept thanking me for the best day.
Monday was busy but exciting! We went to an outdoor bouncy castle hamlet with friends. Three families, 11 kids! It was great! Afterwards we drove to a picnic site, ate our lunch then went on a walk. We all ended up in the river but the kids had a blast!
I love spending time outside! I truly enjoy my kids the most when they can run around and be kids! In today’s world, they can’t run off and be free anymore because it’s not safe so if I can get as much free play as possible in their life, all the better! I’m so thankful I can home educate them! It is such a blessing!
The last few days have been extremely busy! On Sunday nights, I create a plan for the week. I have found that this has worked the best for our routine. Then, I try to cover most of it throughout the week. Some things happen on different days than the plan but it doesn’t matter.
On Monday we went to the park again and Lady P went on the BMX track with her bike. Nobody was there so it was great. I ended up running around with her so I guess it was a work out for me! Bonus!
As usual, she did her maths and English work, we read, did crafts and played in the garden. She also goes to swimming lessons.
On Tuesday, we had a ridiculously long and busy day! The kids went to the beach with daddy while I was at work. They created beach art and attempted to write ‘at words in the sand. Lady P couldn’t understand that she had to hold the stick different from a pencil so she kept getting frustrated.
Later she had gymnastics and did work in between all our comings and goings.
Today we were looking after our little friend again. Lady P did an amazing water colour of a Georgia O’Keeffe close-up of a flower.
I am trying to spend time outside every day I can with the kids. On Wednesdays, we have a little friend who comes to play as well: so going outside is the easiest thing to do!
This week we went to a small wooded area near our home and just spent time exploring. When I asked Lady P if she wanted to go to the playground after, she responded: ‘no thank you, I want to stay here!’
WHAT? This is a first! My experiment is working! She is slowly becoming an outdoor child! Whoopee!
We did eventually go to the playground to wait for our little friend’s mummy to pick him up. The girls practiced balancing and ran around with no shoes on. I read an article about the importance of walking with no shoes on. ‘Walking barefoot…develops the muscles and ligaments of the foot, increases the strength of the foot’s arch, improves proprioception (our awareness of where we are in relation to the space around us) and contributes to good posture.’ (The Guardian) I’ve decided to let them go barefoot as much as possible, where it is safe to do so. (One step closer to tree hugger)
In the morning, it was raining heavily so we did our schoolwork then.
It was a wonderful, stress-free day! It’s days like this that make me glad I made the choice to home educate!
Today I took Lady P and Little Man to the park with some friends who also home educate. We went to the playground and had a picnic in the cold. We spent most of our time on the skate park running up and down the ramps. I’ve never seen Lady P so pink cheeked!
Afterwards, she saw some ants outside our house and wanted to know what would happen if she touched an ant. I told her if they are black, nothing. Then she did something she’s never done in her short little life: she touched a bug! Amazing!!! What progress after only 4 days of spending our time outside!
This week has been a blur! I’ve been visiting my mum and dad in Canada with Little Man and the girls have been home with daddy!
The home education officer came for the first time and it went really well! So we are pleased about that!
Lady P and Cheeky Girl have been busy doing all sorts of exciting things. They’ve been flying kites! The weather has been wonderfully warm so they’ve been outside a lot!
My closest friend of 31 years recommended a book by Ann Pelo called The Goodness of Rain. I’m really enjoying it and it’s really pushing me to rethink my home education philosophy.
I feel pressured (by my own mind and teaching background) to push my children to know how to read and do maths and sit there and be good students. But the more I push, the more they hate learning. So I’ve tried to back off a lot and focus on their happiness, on play, on relationships, on art and other interests and enjoying the environment. I want them to enjoy nature, see creation and appreciate it. I enjoy my children the most when they are outside and getting dirty! Why did I not realise this before?
My eldest child hates going in the garden. She is terrified of bugs and creepy crawlies and being dirty. After reading a few pages of this new book, I realised, she needs to be outside as much as possible to get over these fears…and she needs me to help her. So we went outside; she cried and complained while my other little girl dug up worms, but I explained that she would have a good time if she gave it a chance. So I cleaned the spider webs and flies out of her Wendy house, brushed off her slide and let her go.
I began to mow our jungle lawn and soon, I could feel her little eyes on me. She wanted to help me rake up the grass. I handed her a rake and she started. Soon after, I asked if she could pick up the grass and put it in the bag. She looked at me and said,’but won’t my hands get dirty?’ I suddenly realised she wanted to know it was ok to get dirty. I really hope I’ve not made her this way but I reassured her that it was fine and we’d wash her hands later. So she got stuck in.
As I continued mowing, 3 frogs jumped out of the grass so I stopped the mower and picked them up. Lady P actually asked to hold one. I could not believe it! Later on we found worms and she picked one up (with a fork; she’s not completely nature girl yet) and she helped me mow the grass. We stayed outside from 10 am to 3:30 pm. Not one complaint!
They were filthy! And sun kissed, and happy!
Cheeky girl is already nature girl! She even goes to a forest school two mornings a week for nursery. She loves being outside! So I’m pleased that Lady P is starting to come around. Today she even said, ‘mummy, I’m not afraid of flies anymore..’ She had a very pleased expression on her face! She makes me laugh! So I encourage anyone to get outside and enjoy whatever outdoor environment you have access to! I’ll continue to write about Lady P’s journey.
We spent our half-term break in Comrie, Scotland with friends. What an amazing trip! We stayed in a hotel the first few days, then stayed in a large house with lovely friends! Our goal was finding snow!
We managed to find snow for one day, which was exciting for the kids as they’ve never seen it before! I really love seeing snow through my kids’ eyes! It was so exciting!